Often times,
people, especially women, could not get rid to feel conscious on how they look
in a moment. Women always want to feel and be called beautiful in every single
day. They always want to be complimented by how their hair dye or mascara fits
them. They always struggle on what to wear for party, family gatherings or for
a school wash day. They want to wear their most fashionable and trendy clothes
they owned as much as possible. They won’t deny that their daily mantra goes on
what shade of lipstick to put on a particular day or what type of shoes to
choose matching their Sunny day outfit.
Actually, there is
nothing wrong when women, particularly the teenagers of this generation, strive
to fit the description of beauty that the society has set for them. But what
makes it probably wrong is that people are being totally fooled to the modified
definition of real beauty that the society has already brought. Women of today
are deceived that in order for you to be called beautiful then you must have
big busts, smaller waistline, pointed nose, blonde hair, brown eyes or whiter skin.
Then the rest that does not follow this track is already ugly, worst and shit.
Social media has also changed the
ideal perception of beauty. They think that Facebook, Twitter and Instagram can
measure the deeper meaning of beauty by the number of likes, retweets and
shares they receive in their new profile picture or how many flattering
comments are posted while they are wearing a bikini suit. But hell no, women do
not realize that beauty is beyond on what their eyes can see externally. Beauty
is self-confidence! It is how you carry yourselves positively despite of the
world’s negativity.
Beauty is not only
what we think has pleasure to the senses. Beauty is about embracing and
accepting your own being. Do not be intimated by the advertisements that make
you believe to the illusion that beauty comes by the brand of cosmetic products
you are using or by the number of times you have undergone body enhancements.
Advertisements never, even once, portray that beauty is about owning your
imperfectly perfect flaws.
Believe it when
One Direction says that you do not need make up to cover up and being the way
you are is enough. It is your smile that lights up the world and nobody else.
That is what makes a woman beautiful.
Trust John
Legend's song that out of all the stars in the universe, they do not shine
brighter than you are. You will always be fine on whatever kind of dress you
wear and there will be that someone who will always let you know that you are
the most beautiful creature.
Do not be once
again lost on how this world distortedly perceives beauty. Even Beyonce Knowles
agreed that perfection is a disease of a nation. It is the soul that needs a
surgery. Do not worry to fail and commit mistakes, you do not owe your
spectators a good show in the reality. Let your flaws define how strong woman
you are. The world is not a big runway pageant to impress every person that you
will meet in your life. Do not get jealous if you do not have things that
glitters or where all you have are locals and not Gucci nor Louis Vuitton. If
you can only found out that what really makes you beautiful is the perfect
qualities and uniqueness you possess.
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